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Written on November 15, 2009 – 7:21 am | by carlpetty1973
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IMDB rating: 6.70 Plot: Sir Robert Chiltern is a successful Government minister, well-off and with a loving wife. All this is threatened when Mrs Cheveley appears in London with damning evidence of a past misdeed. Sir Robert turns for help to his friend Lord Goring, an apparently idle philanderer and the despair of his father. Goring knows the lady of old, and, for him, takes the whole thing pretty seriously. |
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Actors: Everett Rupert,Northam Jeremy,Wood John,Vaughan Peter,Pullen Ben,Phillips Neville,Grace Nickolas,Russell Beale Simon,Comedy,Romance,
Mommies who have, or are breastfeeding, can you settle an argument for me? (It's all good natured)?
Have you ever nursed your little one in less than ideal situations? Say your baby had a long cranky day, was just falling asleep and you have a stomach flu?
Nursing in the shower or while brushing your teeth because you have 10 minutes to get yourself ready for a very important appointment ect?
My husband is going off about nursing in the bathroom is abuse, I’m saying we’ve all nursed when it’s not ideal, but you do what needs to be done.
Jason-I don’t make sandwiches. I make pie!
I have nursed while brushing my teeth, while taking a shower and a bath.
I have nursed in between bouts of vomiting, keeping the baby in the bathroom with me because I was too sick to be too far from the toilet.
I have nursed while prepping dinner, doing laundry, and washing dishes (thank goodness for the sling, couldn’t live without it).
Your hubby is plain wrong, it is not abuse. It is being a mother!
** Some babies do not take bottles and some mothers just can’t pump. I no longer own a pump because I just could not do it. And trying to give my baby a bottle would be a laugh. I don’t even think any of my kids know what a bottle is!
| Nov 05, 2009
Of course not. Dont use yahoo answers woman. Now go make me a sandwich.
Jason | Nov 05, 2009
once my wife nursed while using the toilet, i told her it was wrong, i wish i was joking, i hope shedoesnt do it anymore, i dont think its as bad while your just brushing you teeth though
Paddy | Nov 05, 2009
I’m saying, everyone who breastfeeds, yeah sure they have had times when it was inconvenient but these 2 things are just messed up.
That is disgusting, feeding your baby while you’re on the toilet? Like you can’t go to the toilet FIRST and maybe THEN feed the baby? Waiting 5 or 10 minutes isn’t going to hurt your baby.
Nursing in the shower is a stupid idea. What if you slip on some soap? Taking a bath and nursing, that’s a different story. At least then there is no risk of falling. I agree with the person talking about getting soap in their eyes as well, doesn’t seem worth the risk when you could simply shower get out and then feed the baby.
Scooby Dooby Doooo | Nov 05, 2009
lol tell him that its totally fine and if he has a problem he can nurse the baby anywhere he likes at any time:)
kimchi45 | Nov 05, 2009
Just because your baby is hungry doesnt mean that we have to stop what we are doing. Why is brushing your teeth any different than folding a load of clothes? I do not see a problem with it
Nikki B | Nov 05, 2009
Oh yes; and I had twins! There were times when I would breastfeed while drying my hair (that takes talent). What men don’t understand, is we can’t always just sit down on the couch and breastfeed! What baby wants, baby wants now, and sometimes it’s not too convenient. Don’t worry! I don’t know a mother who hasn’t breastfed while trying to paint her nails:)
Meg
Tell your husband that your right for me:)
EDIT: Oh, and ignore some of the idiots on here who have obviously never had children.
thing one AND thing two:) | Nov 05, 2009
Your husband needs to read a paper or watch the evening news if this is his idea of "child abuse." Raising children does not always occur in "ideal situations." Good for you for caring for your child no matter how crazy, busy your life is…and I’ll bet your child will be all the healthier for suffering this "abuse."
Mommabear | Nov 05, 2009
its those kinds of moments its a good idea to pump and have some stored to give your baby. i wouldn’t feed the baby in the shower because soap could get in its eyes. i don’t know how you would really do any of that while feeding. i think it just makes more sense to just give ‘em a bottle of breast milk and do what you need to do.
EDIT: I breastfed my youngest, and it just seems to me that if you dont have the time to feed your baby in a clean safe enviornment then its not even worth it. im a sahm, and the very few times i ever left the baby with my husband to take a shower or run to the store or anything like that, i had bottles saved up for him. and if you get the wide nipples for the bottles they seem to do ok transitioning. while i was breast feeding i constantly had to rearrange things to feed him. put off dinner, wait on laundry, go to bed later. either devote the time and get used to being late for things or start bottle feeding. because unless you compulsively sanatize your bathroom after each use i would not think that a very healthy place to feed.
Loryn | Nov 05, 2009
I was not comfortable nursing in the bathroom at all, just like I’m not comfortable eating in the bathroom. My mom always told me when I was a kid that eating in the bathroom would make me sick with hepatitis B so anything having to do with ingesting food or similar in the bathroom I can’t do. Since breastfeeding is feeding a child, and your hands might not be so clean if you’re using the bathroom, I would think that it wouldn’t be the wisest place to nurse.
As far as the stomach flu, I checked with my doctor on that one when I got a nasty bug when baby #2 was about 5 weeks old. She said that because I was sick it was a good time to nurse because my body was building up immunities to the illness and I would pass those on to my baby in the breastmilk.
royalbird | Nov 05, 2009
I’ve breastfed doing just about everything. Eating dinner, brushing my teeth, in the tub, in the bathroom of a restaurant. When baby is hungry, you do what you have to. And if your husband has a problem, tell him that you know what you are doing, and unless he wants his baby to go hungry, to let you do whatever you need to.
Mollys_Mommy2009 | Nov 05, 2009
I have never breastfed but yes you cant help when your child is hungry… as long as the baby is safe from harm e.i. like falling on their head etc… like dangerous conditions… then I think your fine… I mean you have the right to even in resteraunts i do believe… Look at women back in the olden days like over 100 years ago… they were expected to cook clean do it all and still breastfeed their child doing all crazy sorts of stuff to keep things going… who cares what anyone thinks? As long as your baby is safe from harm and is fed and happy… who cares how it happens as long as its happening… and in the shower…. kinda scary…. I would say take a bath and do it so that way so there isnt a risk of falling…. or dropping the child if and when it becomes slippery… but look at women who also bottle feed… they half the time prop up the pillows and just leave the child to finish whatever *I didnt do this keep in mind because of some of the stories i was told during pregnancy* but how could a person say that is any better? Keep on doing what your doing!
Blu | Nov 05, 2009
I dont see how it is abuse where you feed the baby. The baby does not care where you are at. Now people that are breastfeeding their 5 year old kids….thats questionable and possible abuse
R&R | Nov 05, 2009
I’ve never had too, as my husband is very supportive of my breastfeeding and tries to make it easier for me wherever possible, even if I’m getting ready for us to go out and my son wants a feed my hubby will grab the hairbrush and tidy my hair or go get his sister (it’s an extended family house) and have her do my make up for me. My mother thinks that me and my hubby should move into a place of our own because of the nagging and backstabbing that always seems to go on here, but doesn’t realise that I consider it a decent trade off for always having somebody on hand to give Alex to when I desperately need a break!
tamara m | Nov 05, 2009
Of course. Just a few weeks ago I did have the stomach flu and had to nurse my sick 9mo in between vomiting and other things. And I have nursed while on the toilet (at home) and in the shower and in the car and in a store and a restaurant and at my daughter’s soccer game and really anywhere else I have gone with my son.
Just to add though, I have never nursed in a public restroom. And I would never. Unless I was already nursing and had to go. But even then I would try to hold it.
But my bathroom, no problem I have done that plenty of times.
Open Mouth Insert Boob | Nov 05, 2009
I had to hop in an ambulance with a SCREAMING 18 month old. 4 rescue guys and me sitting so close we were rubbing knees together and I had to nurse her in front of them to calm her down..they seemed happy she shut up though lol
Thumbellina | Nov 05, 2009
it’s not abuse but i am not sure how u breastfeed in the shower
sammi | Nov 05, 2009
I don’t eat in the bathroom. I wouldn’t expect my child to either. I don’t see it as being very sanitary.
I breastfed both of my children, one for a year, and the other for 4 months (due to health reasons we had to stop nursing).
At the same time, I’m also rather large chested. It’s not like I could ever latch the baby on and go about my day. I had to always have one hand keeping my breast supported in addition to preventing it from smothering my child. I had to plan to sit and take the time to nurse at each session. I could read books with my toddler while my hands were busy with my infant, but teeth brushing or vomiting? No. In retrospect, having to set aside time to make it a point to nurse really slowed down my days. And it was really nice. It was like spending the time bonding and paying attention to the baby, not just shoving food in the kid’s mouth because he/she was hungry. Sure there were days where I was impatient and feeling like it was ridiculous that it took me 2 hours of planning before I could go anywhere, but those days are over now and I miss them.
Tris | Nov 05, 2009
Holy hannah montana! I think your hubby needs to get his ducks in a row, seriously! I’ve BF on the bus, in the restaurant/food court, walking down the street, getting ready and while I’m sick. The baby is hungry then you gotta feed them. If people don’t like it, they don’t have to. I do cover up with a blanket and no I do not show off my boobs as a woman of liberty. I take care and feed my baby then I put my boob away. People are really weird that they would consider it abuse…. Seriously YOU ARE NOURISHING YOUR CHILD! Tell your hubby that if he would like to watch Jr while you get ready for something important and feed the screaming baby then he’s more than welcome to grow a set of boobs to compensate!
Mommy of 2 + 1 on the way! | Nov 05, 2009
I nursed my son on a public bus! THose babies half to eat, and they don’t care where it is.
Sweetpea | Nov 06, 2009
You said it yourself: "you do what needs to be done."
You know what’s proper and sanitary. Just remember certain substances ingested can pass through the system to your baby, and take proper steps. Think of how it used to be…and somehow the human race survived!! Maybe you’re not giving hubby enough attention for him, and hence he makes these comments…(?)
curioso | Nov 06, 2009
Do you eat in the bathroom? I never nursed my baby when she did not have my full attention to make shure she was feeding properly and not rushed.
me | Nov 06, 2009
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